I don't know if it makes me feel better or worse or maybe just helps me deal with the situation better but my W seems to be spiraling downwards at the moment.
Not that we should revel in our W's suffering but if the spiral is a part of her waking up to the realities -- of the damage she is doing to everyone involved -- then it's a good thing, right?
I'm sure it's sad to see someone you love/used to love go through it though. I hate to see it happen w/ my W, but I think that's what she's set herself up for (and those around her)....
Me: 50, MLC/WW 45 Young kids Nov 2015: BD1 Apr 2016: BD2 Jan 2017: W filed Feb 2017: D final
