MLCW, Divorce is Started

[kat727]

I agree. Your son is being put into a pawn position here on her side, you certainly don't need it happening on your side to. Apologize to him and then let him know that the changes were agreed to by W, you and the court. Your son deserves the best life possible.

I know going from what happened with my own son, that he will be testing boundaries, trying to sort it all out and not always make the best choices. Fortunately my son never got into trouble except with me. No reason to get his dad involved, he lived half an hour away and all he would ever say was listen to your mother.

It is hard to be the parent that sticks by the rules and for principles but I know he will be eternally grateful later. My son even wrote me a happy Father's day card once and said that I was everything he ever needed as a Mom and a Dad, I was just missing an appendage.

you can do this! kat