I am sure it is too late for this kind of thing. She is really angry. I think part of the reason she is more angry now is because I pointed out to the courts what she has done and has refused to become self-supporting. I am not sure what is going to happen, but I am worried because she ALWAYS gets her way. The thing is, I do not want to do this. I do not want to fight, but I have to stand up for myself for once and it is getting ugly. If I thought it would do any good, I would write her a letter and ask her to reconsider, but I do not think it will do anything besides give her the opportunity to write me a nasty letter.
They say people realize that the grass is not always as green on the other side, but I don't think that will be the case with her. She is always angry and always the victim. She actually had it better than she thought. I worked while she stayed in her pajamas and homeschooled and then did whatever she wanted throughout the day. Even had season passes to the local theme park on OC. I just don't get it, but I guess people who are as spoiled as she never seem to understand these things. Another reason she will likely not reconsider is, she has not actually been on her own. She is living (by choice) in subsidized housing while i pay 150% of her entire cost of living. She has never in her life had to do anything on her own.