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[cbtdad]

RSG!! My friend. I've been staying in tune with your sitch even though I haven't posted in a few days. I'm gonna give you a few 2x4's so please know that I do it with the best intentions:)
You have got to stop mind reading!!! So much of what is happening is because you are doing things still or not doing things to get a reaction out of your WW. You don't have to admit it, but that is whats happening. I've been there buddy. You like to text her back and you like that she text you for updates. But it's not healthy right now.
Look man, I know its hard. I got a head start in my first situation then you did. I didn't come on this board till a couple months after I had already been physically separated. Then it still took me a month or so to "drop the rope"
You will get there, but you need more space. You need to do what everyone is suggesting and tell her you need the space.
I really like the "I will let you know if there is a problem otherwise assume that he is good hands with his father". And you need to assume that he is in good hands with his mother while she has him
I know this is so difficult with a young child. Our son was 3 when we first separated, so I get it.
But why don't you really give a whirl for 2 weeks with minimal contact and see what happens. See how you are able to handle that. See how she handles it. Because if y'all divorce this wll be a lot longer than 2 weeks anyways.

Going back to one of your posts that you asked how to handle things
You get know transparency in to her life right now, that is just fact. She gets none in yours. It goes both ways
You have zero say about OM and updates on your S. I know this is tough to hear, but true
Forget FB. Don't even follow her. If she wants to follow you then great. But remove following her on her feed and don't check
It will make your life a whole lot better

You have made SO MUCH progress buddy, but you are still so early into this. Your patience is getting better and you seem to realize that there isn't a quick fox. So understanding that, take it to the next level. That's my suggestion
Hang in there! it will get better either way
That I promise as long as you DB for you and not to win her back