"Thus, the biggest fear I have is not her leaving/not loving me, it is that I will no longer be willing or able when that time comes."

This is a fear that comes to me every now and then too. I can tell a huge difference in how I feel about her now compared to how I felt the day she walked out.

I agree w/Sotto though. She's scared of losing you to someone else, but is just making sure you're there. It's a really ugly thing honestly. Unless you can see a change in her attitude towards you (and you'll know), assume she's still in an A....


Me: 35 W: 32
S: 4
T: 6 M: 4
Physical Separation official: 5/21
Currently: DR/DBing, Focusing on me and son

Cheating on a good person is like throwing away a diamond and picking up a rock.