New here and separated

[Coly23]

Thanks Melo, as soon as I sent the text I regretted it especially as the response was so rubbish!

H has refused to speak with the majority of his friends as he is most probably embarrassed about what he has done and also he admitted that he didn't want to talk to anyone as all they want to talk about is why he left. His best friend and wife managed to corner him and told him that he has behaved disgracefully so now he is also avoiding them. However he has one friend who when he first left allowed him to stay in his rental flat for a month and when he had to move out offered to let him stay in his house for another couple of weeks. He invites him to family lunches/dinner/BBQs takes him out to play golf etc. But does not discuss anything about why he left us so my H is happy to spend time with him and his family. I just want to tell him to back off as he is making if too easy for my H to move on. How can he miss his own family if he is getting cosy with someone else's!