Cld,
As I pointed out in my posting, it is up to the LBS to decide what is best for them, i.e., waiting on their spouse for years and years after a divorce or moving on at some point and meeting someone new or remaining single. Your decision is to wait and not date...again...that is your choice and I do appreciate your "commitment to your marriage". However, I do have one question for you...have you given any thought as to what you might do if she doesn't come back to her senses? Would you remain committed to your marriage if she didn't wake up or would you finally accept that she's not returning to her self and move on and begin dating? I'd like to hear your thoughts on this.

Irish, I'm sorry for the hi-jack. Cld, if you wish to discuss this further, we can do so on your thread.


Last edited by job; 07/31/16 10:40 AM.
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