Really quick recap from old thread: Wife sent a NC email to OM about three weeks ago.
I've written an update post on my overall sitch a few times over the past couple weeks, but keep scrapping it... situation is fuzzy. In a nutshell: As far as I can tell WW has maintained NC with OM and I'm sure she would say we're "piecing". Things have been nice, and her actions have remained very promising, but I don't fully trust it yet. Right now I'm just trying to avoid labeling it; allowing myself to enjoy my time with her, while still enjoying my own GAL stuff and friends as well, and just letting some time pass while I'm focused on being my best me.
I'm not 100% sure she is not in contact with OM via a new email address or something. Wish I knew but trying to not stress about it and just focus on my end. One thing I am sure about is I am getting pretty [censored] awesome. The exercise and GAL activities are paying off big time. I am in much better shape, have clothes that fit better, am more comfortable around people, and am able to have fun when wife is not around. I still very much hope I am able to rebuild a new relationship with my current wife, but if she fucks it up I will be ok. Not saying it won't be painful, but I will be ok.
Me, WW - Upper 30s BD - Apr 1 2016 EA - Apr 7 2016 (discovered; ongoing for months; did not confront right away) Confronted wife about EA - May 17 Wife sent NC email to OM - July 11