Her response was that she will not stop either and that if I involve my sister she will divorce me in an instant. ...what to do now?...
That's just plain trashy. First things first, really sit down and think about what you want. There's no way something this weird isn't going to bust at the seams and create chaos all over the place whether you're the one to reveal it or not. Someone will get careless.
This has nothing to do with your choices, I'll respect them no matter what you choose. Were it me, I'd be done and just announce it myself. I simply could not abide such wanton disrespect and insane behavior. But, like I said, I don't have to live it. Don't act on impulse, but try not to be scared. Good luck to you!!!!
Me: 35 W: 32 S: 4 T: 6 M: 4 Physical Separation official: 5/21 Currently: DR/DBing, Focusing on me and son
Cheating on a good person is like throwing away a diamond and picking up a rock.
