It is driving me a little bit crazy today. One of my good friends who is in a similar situation is also W friend and it upsets me a little bit that W is walking around talking to everyone who will listen about our "huge problems" but will not talk to the one person who is actually involved (me).

And I know it's a common characteristic for WW to not want to talk to their spouse about their marriage and quite frankly 98% of the time I don't want to talk to her about it either. But that 2% of the time. Drives me crazy. Just talk to everyone about it but the one person who could actually help you work on it.

I know I know she doesn't want to work on it right now. I get it I do. And I'm GAL and trying hard to detach more and more. But sometimes I wish she could talk rationally for 5 minutes.

Okay. I just had to vent because I'm trying really hard to remain dark and sometimes I just want to text her and be like WTF ARE YOU DOING!?!?! But I know it wouldn't help. It would actually hurt the situation more.

W:32 M:26
T:5 yrs M: 3 yr
BD: JUN 2016
W Moved out: early JUL 2016
W Filed for D: mid JUL 2016
EA: 06/16?
PA: 07/16
Moved in w/ ow: 07/16
D final: 10/16