Melo, you are right. I am not respected. I am looked down upon by my W and her family. I could never meet their expectations although they havevmultiple failed marriages and are just bitter.
How can I make a difference? How can I get some respect? My W relies on me to an extent but is keen to show how capable she she is and doesn't need me or any other man to get through life. She lives through the kids and judges me on how I interact with them. As for our marriage, we haven't mentioned it for months now..just seems like it's done with and now waiting for the divorce to come through..


I gotta keep breathing. Because tomorrow the sun will rise. Who knows what the tide could bring?