My wife walked out 4

[RSG]

So much of this makes so little sense, and is so contradictory.

I get told: Don't care about her feelings do it for you! I do it for me. Care about her feelings!

Don't answer calls, instigate contact and keep any texts to short answers. I do. I still get scolded. I just ignore them until I feel like responding. Scolded more.

I've told her I'll update after he goes to bed. I get scolded.

Don't tell them what you're doing, and don't ask what they're doing. I do that. I get scolded for not telling her what I'm doing.

I'm fine with who I am, as a man and as a Daddy. I'd like to do the right thing, and rebuild our marriage and save the family. But if it's divorce, I'll deal with that just fine.