I don't think she needs to know what my appointment is, because she's not my W. Nobody knows I'm in counseling except my parents. And, yes, the overriding reason I'm not telling her about the minute details of S day is because she quit the family.
As for Facebook, if I felt as you say I'd hold back on posting pics of S. But I don't. I post, like and comment on whatever I want. If she wants to peek into my life she can, I have nothing to hide. I find the idea of blocking, or restriction, childish and petty.
Me: 35 W: 32 S: 4 T: 6 M: 4 Physical Separation official: 5/21 Currently: DR/DBing, Focusing on me and son
Cheating on a good person is like throwing away a diamond and picking up a rock.