That's a whole other issue for us. We just purchased our house in January. We would actually lose money if we sold it at this point so that doesn't make sense. And I know W doesn't want the house she likes living back in home town and commuting to work (why we didn't just stay there in the first place I'll never understand) and I actually want the house.

We are both on title but the mortgage is just in her name. I'm going to be meeting with my lawyer soon to discuss my options and see if we can get W to agree to something reasonable so we don't lose even more money in this D

W:32 M:26
T:5 yrs M: 3 yr
BD: JUN 2016
W Moved out: early JUL 2016
W Filed for D: mid JUL 2016
EA: 06/16?
PA: 07/16
Moved in w/ ow: 07/16
D final: 10/16