Pay her no mind Surfer. Detaching in part is not letting her actions or opinions have any impact nor influence on you. Do you think any response you make will change her thoughts or actions right now. How would you react to a neighbor saying those things?
I encourage that you take your focus away from her behaviors and keep them on yours. What behaviors make Surfer a better man and the person only a fool would leave?
Me 46 Former W 46 D19 D7 BD Feb 2016 WAW moves out 4/16/16 D final 6/1/2017
It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine