My wife walked out 4

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Cnut, I guess one reason these came to mind is I'm getting tired of her getting on her high horse and saying "I won't be cruel" or "Why can't you update me on S like I do?" Sorry, but you've BEEN and CONTINUE to be cruel and I'm not being your H w/o getting a W in return.

I don't update because A) she draws me into unrelated chats that I don't think are beneficial to me, especially in going dim. B) As stated above, this is something her H did. If she puts away the $hit, I'm willing to start doing things her H did.

I guess I'll just leave FB as it is. I believe equal access is important, but she wants to be secretive. I don't like that she can see pictures of S I post, but then again I think she's being childish by restricting me and I don't want to be that way.

I haven't discussed any of this with her, except FB but that was 3+ weeks ago.

Rose, she's struggling with being away from both of us. S for sure, but she'll use him as a way to start talking to me about things only pertaining to me. What's your appointment? (She knows it's counseling, just wants me to say it) How are you doing? (I just say fine, and when she presses I say I'm doing well and leave it at that) Why didn't you say anything about the pics I sent, are you busy? And so on.

I think I'm starting on week 11 of this. I want to bring up some of this stuff with my therapist T, but the longer this goes on the less I miss her. Sure, I hear a Britney Spears song, a preview to a new horror movie, a dress in a style she likes and on and on and my first instinct is to say something but it dies off immediately. I'm enjoying my time with my boy, and find that I can be a single Dad just fine. I can take care of and address issues without having to involve her, but she can't. She needs me to hold her hand, allay her worries and help her with every decision no matter how minor. She needs my emotional support, and extends it to her stresses at work, money (she figured out she can barely afford a 1 BR apt) and general life issues. Sorry, but if you want my emotional support we can work on our M. I'm not your friend, and won't be....