Detaching.....nearly there..

[Surfer]

I have noticed other behaviours too. A control behaviour. Whenever she drops the kids, or I make comment upon what we are up to, she feels the need to direct me. Those toothbrushes will be too big for them, if you are going to take them there - don't forget x, can you not give them pasta etc. All small direction and pretty unnecessary control which I am not a fan of, but I tolerate.

When we were together and I had confronted her about the EA it was all about how I washed the dishes, ironed kids uniforms, stacked the dishwasher. Anything to needle etc.

All of this is similar behaviour. The before splitting and after. I am tempted to start being honest. "Don't worry I am a big boy and can handle it". Or perhaps just say nothing and as I am.

Any thoughts on these points?

Thank you.