Hey Painter. I've been reading a lot but have trouble posting much, like there's some kind of inertia. The boards can do that to you sometimes, it's the same story everywhere, you just get sick after a while and can't look at it anymore.
I know the disgust you feel. It would be like if you were camping, and slowly waking up in the morning, and you felt something in the sleeping bag and thought it was your puppy, then you woke up and found out it was a snake crawling in your bed...you'd just jump up and try to fling the thing as far away as possible or get a lot of distance. Then you'd want a good shower and you'd feel a little shaken because it isn't the nicest way to start your day.
I started a rant but will move that to my thread on surviving. I'll just say that while disgust may not be the noble reaction to humanity, if it helps you detach and protect yourself it ain't all bad. Sorry he is such a snake painter.
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15