Detaching.....nearly there..

[Surfer]

Nice relaxing day with the kids today. Film day, then trip to see grandparents 3 hours away then back for Sunday.

I have noticed a few things with my wife recently:

1) She is not angry with me seems nice with me mostly
2) She is hanging around more rather than bolting as soon as the kids are dropped off by her
3) More eye contact
4) There is a little humour at times
5) She seems more relaxed in my company
6) Whilst I have retuned mediation forms the mediator says she has not (I have asked him not to chase as I don't want to instigate mediation)

99% sure there is no OM. 99% Sure she is feeling pressure of life with the kids alone, work, home life, not having the support, financial pressures etc. Slow, small and perhaps not important improvements. But improvements no doubt. I cast my mind back to the horrors of 2-3 months ago and this is very different.