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[Coly23]

Raul, it worries me how a spouse can just seemingly forget about us once they walk out if the door. I have wondered many a time about whether my H is thinking about me as much as I think about him. It's so hard not to fill in the gaps and assume they are not thinking about us but sometimes that's all we have to go on if there isn't anything tangible to tell us otherwise.

I remember when I first started seeing my H and I had some exams at the time, I used to ask him to think of me during my exam and he would always say that off course he would but he didn't know if he could think of me anymore than he already does because most of his thoughts were about me. I try to hold onto that sometimes when I am feeling low, that maybe he does think of me even though he doesn't show it....