Hi Feyth, yes that does sound odd...and funny with the marketing. Like me shopping at Tammy Girl again!!

I understand the whole 'it's not great here, so I need to go there.' I think that's an integral part of MLC (and happens in the M too). Instead of looking inside at potentially dark and scary places, MLCers make these external changes.

XH has changed his marriage, home and job in the last two years. I think it is hard to find a place where you feel settled, particularly as some guilt and shame may be in the mix (for what you've done to your M etc.) But of course that peace within only comes when you reach a point of being willing to deal with some difficult stuff.

Anyway, regardless of what may be going on for him, it sounds as though you are doing well Sweetie xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus