Yes I agree V. I meant willing to give it a go, willing to fight for what you want, willing to go against the odds.

Trying and hoping are unattractive weak characteristics UNLESSfoklowed by real ACTION.

My intention was to say that it is admirable someone standing for a marriage when their spouse wants out. This is probably not attractive to WaS but I find it admirable. The real Brownie pointsthough are earned by how one stands and more specifically WHAT one does.

Thanks for clarifying my wording


R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together