Stupid question, if.when you receive these accusatory rants in the form of an email do you even bother to reply (ie-validate the hurt/pain and maybe pull together a few counterpoints)?

Do you stay dark?

Received a doozy of an email today along these exact lines and trying to navigate the next step.

W:51 M:50
T:19 yrs M: 17 yrs
S15 S11
BD: April 2016 ("too much tension")
Moved out: early June 2016
Filed for D: early June 2016