My wife walked out 4

[Coconut]

1. She hasn't mentioned getting back together, why do you think she would let you see her phone. Transparency happens when she expresses remorse and wants to do anything she can to make it work... For now drop the rope (it really feels good when you do). Base updates on what is good for you.

2. Not updating because she asks sounds like punishment, again do what's good for you. If she keeps asking, block her number on your phone during the day, that way you don't get the texts, then unblock when you are ready to text.

3. If you unblocked her on Facebook so she would do the same, you did it for the wrong reason. Do you want to block her? If so do it, if not don't do it, but expect nothing.

Don't discuss any of these with her again, just take the action that works for you.