Hi ForGump, I'm so sorry your situation is still bad. Has your W actually filed for D or only threatening to?
She's slowly working on filing. One might be tempted to point to her slow pace as a reflection of her ambivalence, but ... all signs are that although she's scared about doing it, her determination has not wavered a single bit.
At this point, after having passed through some very bad times thinking about what the D would mean for me, I'm ready to force myself to move forward -- that is, if I'm thinking ONLY for myself. But we have kids, and that just breaks my heart all by itself.
Me: 50, MLC/WW 45 Young kids Nov 2015: BD1 Apr 2016: BD2 Jan 2017: W filed Feb 2017: D final
