I am so happy to hear your trip went well and you all had a good time. Its great to have time out from your home world to heal your soul.
Regarding your h sending your d a card and money for graduation - they do the most random things and you wont really ever know the reason why he choose that particular event to acknowledge; he probably does not know himself. Having a milestone come along may have been a reminder to him of his family, he may have wanted to reach out for a while and felt awkward after all the time that has passed. Whatever the reason, he created the damage and its up to him to mend it. You have done so well staying in neutral territory and allowing your daughters to decide for themselves without influence from you.
A new chapter for you Gwen, both your girls at Uni, so whats next for you? Any thoughts on what path you want to head down?
