RSG, the first one is hard. Worried that may push her away.
The second one is much more do-able and sets a big boundary with known consequences. that'd alleviate the intraday noise and show her that you won't stand for it.
On the third one, you both already agreed to remove the access restriction. You did, but she did not. I don't think you use the texting situation to address that. She already said she would do it, but didn't. I'd offer you either restrict her again, or tell her that if she doesn't live up to the previous agreement you will restrict her again.
Communications between y'all sound good, besides the constant temp checking on her part. Keep it up bud!
Me39 M11 : T13 D9 BD 5/31/16 In House S until 6/21/17 Divorced 10/5/18