Thanks for the perspective SH, I sometimes do too much mind reading and think that she thinks I'm angry. Which isn't totally incorrect, there is a little anger here, but mostly hurt and disillusionment. I need time to heal too, I keep thinking of all the times she lied to me and I was taking xare of the kids while she was out seeing other men. I do need to re read DR and I wish I could afford a coach, but I can't so I turn to you guys. I need to find the right balance between NC and open communication.
