After a couple of months of detaching and being pretty good (I have to be honest) about going dark, received a long email message from my wife about how the things that are going on in our separation. Specifically, about the "devastating impact" of the past few years of our marriage and how the "changes" I am making with the boys (during the separation) should have been done long ago.
Do I validate and respond or simply stay dark and ignore?
What do you want to do? What do you want to write?
Maybe write it out here first and get some comments. There is no hurry to respond.
