Yes the list of what is attractive can be added to. One thing many people overlook is "trying". Doing is better but trying should definitely get some recognition. I know the road to hell is paved with good intentions but I salute each and every member here who are trying to save a M a R or a family.
I just came across that 4 point list recently so I q Quoted it.
R 25 years M 14 years S11 & S13 Working on it alone since Oct 2014 M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years) Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr. Next R chat Aug'17 Still together
