Oh dear Vanilla, poor ole RIT is in for a big surprise
The thought of the gold digging scammers getting scammed themselves makes me laugh.
My ex portrayed himself to all of his online girlfriends as a very successful businessman, even though he hasn't worked since 1994, and I supported us. Job hit the nail on the head, I think. RT was probably horrified to learn my ex supports himself by doing odd jobs and living rent-free with his mom. RIT will be facing the same dilemma soon!
What are the divorce laws like in the UK for dividing marital and pre-marital property? Is there a chance your ex could be granted half of your assets?
As for us meeting in real life, that would be lovely!
Linda
Me 65, Ex 64 M 38 y 2 adult S, 4 G-Kids MLC 11/07 BD 12/09 D 3/14 Dating nice guy 7/14 Engaged to nice guy 12/17