hey, don't forget:

5. good father and working to be better including reading up / improving parenting philosophy. you are spending more quality time with boys.

6. good provider. you work hard and have spent a ton of effort building a reasonably comfortable life for you and your family

these are very (Structurally speaking) attractive qualities in a man. often more important than what you physically look like - just saying...


M - 40's
W - 30's
Two Sons
Living together