New here and separated

[Coly23]

Thanks ForGump, I guess I'm just being impatient for my communication goal to be accomplished!

I felt low again last night especiay after reading on here someone saying that most DBsrs on here won't reconcile with their partners and that reconciliation is rare. I know a big part of DBing is to improve yourself no matter what the out outcome but at the end of the day I am primarily using these tools to get my marriage back on track but now I feel there is very little hope....