First Buds

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Thanks for the support everyone.

V, I will definitely look out for it. I spoke to L today. He isn't worried at all. Him and his L already have a lot of blots against them and the judge has already had to intervene due to their unorthodox ways. The L even got fined. If we go down that path it is going to cost him more than me, even though his whole point in doing this is to make my legal fees so high that the support he gives me is cancelled out by the expense it took to get there.

My L today said, "I think your H is the biggest narc I ever dealt with. How did you ever live with someone whose words and actions never add up?" I just laughed because I ask myself that question every day. He's good at his game and I was naive. I believed in the prince charming--and needed to believe it was true when contradictions appeared. I talked myself out of reality almost as well as he talked me out of it. It is telling when your L who deals only with D and has been in the business for a long time says that. He had my whole family fooled. He has everyone fooled--because he has the golden boy persona. He is a prince alright, but an entitled one--not a heroic one. And now he is branding himself as a philantropist. Designed a logo to show it so it must be true--right? He will do a little charity work. Have tee shirts made up. Change the image of his little side business hobby to be all for charity. Always the good guy.

I'm starting to feel actually GRATEFUL for OW. I almost want to thank her for taking him off of my hands.

The saying " Birds of a feather flock together" and when folks say that people's dogs take on the traits of their owners, never made me think of a d bag WH and his equally d bag lawyer, but now I see how it would apply.

It is pretty sickening to read this and my heart and prayers go out to you mustardseed.
I do believe strongly in the powers that lady Karma has, and I would love to be around when she plants her sweet kiss on this man's (and his l) cheek.
It's gonna leave a mark I tell ya.
You have such a sweet disposition and the tenacity of a warrior queen, and this will aid you through this most unfortunate storm.
Chin up sister. Nothing he says brings any value to this card game. He's all bluffs and hot air at best.
He does not even deserve,.........well, he does not deserve anything that is related to you past, present nor future.

Be well Ms, and maintain that air of confidence that you share here. You are not the image he paints.
You are strong, confident, patient woman with a much brighter future ahead.
Remember this.

Thanks for the support everyone.

V, I will definitely look out for it. I spoke to L today. He isn't worried at all. Him and his L already have a lot of blots against them and the judge has already had to intervene due to their unorthodox ways. The L even got fined. If we go down that path it is going to cost him more than me, even though his whole point in doing this is to make my legal fees so high that the support he gives me is cancelled out by the expense it took to get there.

My L today said, "I think your H is the biggest narc I ever dealt with. How did you ever live with someone whose words and actions never add up?" I just laughed because I ask myself that question every day. He's good at his game and I was naive. I believed in the prince charming--and needed to believe it was true when contradictions appeared. I talked myself out of reality almost as well as he talked me out of it. It is telling when your L who deals only with D and has been in the business for a long time says that. He had my whole family fooled. He has everyone fooled--because he has the golden boy persona. He is a prince alright, but an entitled one--not a heroic one. And now he is branding himself as a philantropist. Designed a logo to show it so it must be true--right? He will do a little charity work. Have tee shirts made up. Change the image of his little side business hobby to be all for charity. Always the good guy.

I'm starting to feel actually GRATEFUL for OW. I almost want to thank her for taking him off of my hands.

The saying " Birds of a feather flock together" and when folks say that people's dogs take on the traits of their owners, never made me think of a d bag WH and his equally d bag lawyer, but now I see how it would apply.

It is pretty sickening to read this and my heart and prayers go out to you mustardseed.
I do believe strongly in the powers that lady Karma has, and I would love to be around when she plants her sweet kiss on this man's (and his l) cheek.
It's gonna leave a mark I tell ya.
You have such a sweet disposition and the tenacity of a warrior queen, and this will aid you through this most unfortunate storm.
Chin up sister. Nothing he says brings any value to this card game. He's all bluffs and hot air at best.
He does not even deserve,.........well, he does not deserve anything that is related to you past, present nor future.

Be well Ms, and maintain that air of confidence that you share here. You are not the image he paints.
You are strong, confident, patient woman with a much brighter future ahead.
Remember this.