What are your goals at this point? What changes do you hope to see in your situation, in yourself, in your MLC/WW? What are some mileposts on the way to those final goals?
Seems like you had a terrific day 1 of going dim. Keep it up. I think it's important to stay gentle, warm but firm -- the point is not to push her away but to let her know you're focusing on yourself, and movin' on... (or ... something like that -- I'm new to this).
Me: 50, MLC/WW 45 Young kids Nov 2015: BD1 Apr 2016: BD2 Jan 2017: W filed Feb 2017: D final
