CT1118,

This could be turning a corner - or her just checking that plan B still loves her.

Your walk is the same - away from her. A bomb just went off a block from your work? I'm sorry... I hope it works out for you. You just lost a kidney? Send a card. I'm going to the absurd here, but you get my drift...

Why not try to turn towards her now? She has to feel the loss.

My ex-ww is in a MLC, if I had to put a name on it. Didn't change the divorce. Some don't want the D - they just want something... anything... but losing the marriage would be a bridge too far. Mine blew the bridge up right away.

You have done the DB'ing thing, it sounds like, to good effect. You carried the ball to get a first down... to the 10. You got 90 yards to go. Don't go for the deep crossing route yet. Keep up the 3 yards and a cloud of dust routine until you get stronger.


M46, EXWW46
M15 T17
D20, S19, D13
M - Addiction since 1998
W EA/PA #1 2013/2014
W EA #2 June 2015...
BD 1 Big D talk 9/15
BD 2 - EA/PA disc 10/30/15
Served D 1/22/16
Divorced 5/25/16 (yes, that fast!)