Originally Posted By: Coly23
I am also suprise at the number of male DBers on here


Seems to me there are far more men here then women.

Originally Posted By: Coly23
if he is checking up on me through my daughter it makes me mad!


I would be happy if my W was curious about me ...

It would be far better if your H communicated directly with you but ...

Me: 50, MLC/WW 45
Young kids
Nov 2015: BD1
Apr 2016: BD2
Jan 2017: W filed
Feb 2017: D final