Cnut, this makes sense to me. I really don't converse with her very much these days. I didn't answer texts, so she's tried to call. Didn't answer my phone, so called work. Didn't do any of that so emailed! Seems desperate and wanting my attention....
Today. 8 texts and 1 call. Didn't have to ignore because I missed the call this AM as I wokeup late (stupid button on the iPhone turned off sound) and was taking the dog out. Luckily made it to work only a couple minutes late. A picture of S this AM, nag that I didn't "touch base" with his teacher enough (she loves that phrase), picture of form to look at and download his summer pics from preschool and noted his teacher said he had cute ones (like always!). Then this afternoon, she asked if I could pickup S tomorrow and that she hoped I could send an answer quickly because it was about work. I wondered about that for a sec, but just wanted to be w/S so I said Yes I'll pick him up. She then said her boss has been out of town, and since she's the #2 she's been in charge. And that she's really sorry.
I'm not 100% on whether I should ignore that, or validate. But after about 45 mins I validated because I don't really have many opportunities to do that, by saying that must be really stressful for you.
I had a good day at work. Came home, pooped out the dog on another nice walk. Going to clean up around the house tonight and do some laundry. Fun fun! But need to get it taken care of. Excited my boy will be home early. School starts Aug 1, and he'll be with me Su-F as my schedule is much more conducive to taking him in the mornings. She will be picking him up around 3:15 or so and dropping him home, so I'll see her a few minutes daily after work.
Me: 35 W: 32 S: 4 T: 6 M: 4 Physical Separation official: 5/21 Currently: DR/DBing, Focusing on me and son
Cheating on a good person is like throwing away a diamond and picking up a rock.