wife of 14 years walks out on her family

[Raul]

RSG,
Yes she had moved out a few weeks ago when she asked if she can spend the night. So I let her crash thinking it will motivate her to come back.

Since I have not respond about shopping with her for our girls' clothes shopping, she has not brought it up or text me about it. So I'm assuming it might have been her way of seeing if I would call or text back. Not sure, maybe it's me reading on something that might mean nothing.

Coly23, yes. Thanks for reminding me about the Solo Partner's Distancer and Pursuer. I had to step back. It has been a week today since she told me to leave her alone screaming (on the phone) and to be prepare for the divorce because it is coming.

These were actual words:
"I am not coming back to you. You don't see it because you hope I might change my mind, but I am not coming home. The sooner you realize it, the sooner you could move on. So move on. You can't repair our marriage, there is nothing to repair. It is too late. I don't love you. You don't worry where I go or who I go with. I can date the milkman, the mailman, it is none of your business [for the record, i never asked her whom she was dating or where she was going- she just started ranting non stop]. If I was in love with you, our marriage would have been awesome [yes word by word], but that's the problem, i don't feel nothing for you. I love you, yes, I would not have married you if I didn't. I never loved you, I don't think I ever loved you like I love this person [OM]. I know what true love is, I feel it with him, I never felt it with you. [Here is where she contradicts herself.] I am not seeing nobody, you think I am seeing someone, I'm not. I just go to work and head to my apartment alone. That is why I know I don't love you, because I do not think about you and I am alone. If I love you, I would have been thinking about you, but I don't- and I am not seeing no body. From now on, you will not talk to me or have a conversation unless it is about our daughters. This is the last time I talk to you."

I get all confuse. So NC has gave me some peace of mind too.