I think the mantra we keep hearing about how we can't change our wives is so true, and worth meditating on. It's very tempting to want to plant thoughts and ideas in her head, but it's a dangerous game.
I think my W has deep-seated issues stemming from her biology and upbringing that makes her ennui boil ...
Mine's not in therapy and is not particularly interested in changing ...
Me: 50, MLC/WW 45 Young kids Nov 2015: BD1 Apr 2016: BD2 Jan 2017: W filed Feb 2017: D final