Is your wife in therapy?

I think the mantra we keep hearing about how we can't change our wives is so true, and worth meditating on. It's very tempting to want to plant thoughts and ideas in her head, but it's a dangerous game.

I think my W has deep-seated issues stemming from her biology and upbringing that makes her ennui boil ...

Mine's not in therapy and is not particularly interested in changing ...


Me: 50, MLC/WW 45
Young kids
Nov 2015: BD1
Apr 2016: BD2
Jan 2017: W filed
Feb 2017: D final