I do think you need to set some boundaries with her as it seems she steps over any line you draw. Do you think she is doing this for just confrontation sake? Was she one who liked drama in the relationship?
I ask becuz my STBX needed drama/confrontation and looks for it now if possible and spews like yours. If you let this one go (going into your house) then I would ensure you don't let the next one go.
I am reading into this but sounds like you were the typical "nice guy" in the relationship (as was I) and would bend to her plans ? If so ...remind her you are not together anymore ....and that has stopped. There is a new sheriff in town so she chose this path...live with it. I have taken harder stances with my STBX as she tries the same stuff..."hey thought you might want to take D on XX weekend even though its my weekend".....INTERPRETATIOn: I have plans with someone I want to make change your plans for me.
No...and no. Stick with it...your doing well
_________________________ Me-48 Spouse-WAW 52 Married for 10 years D7 ILYBNILWY 7/15 Suspect EA/PA 12/15 No confirmation/denial She files 1/2016 Working towards the Big D ...still in progress....