Originally Posted By: Tate
The two things keeping me from telling my sister are that it appears my wife is trying to move back to me...


I bet she's playing you, just like she's played you before.

Sorry.

Originally Posted By: Tate
...and that revealing this monster will surely halt visits between the kids.


That would be bad for the kids. But what about the long-term consequences of the situation? Some day it's all going to come out, and the kids will know whether you acted with integrity and wisdom.

Just my $0.02's worth. I realize it's easy to hand out opinions when you're not knee deep in it....


Me: 50, MLC/WW 45
Young kids
Nov 2015: BD1
Apr 2016: BD2
Jan 2017: W filed
Feb 2017: D final