wife of 14 years walks out on her family

[RSG]

Oh man. I don't know your home situation, but if she isn't living at home I wouldn't let her crash. There was no real test, but she knew you were pining for her to be back and in their warped state of mind love is a turnoff.

You gotta cut down on all communication as much as possible. She can't just crash, don't tell her what you bought the kids, don't respond to much of anything really. If it's a logistical question as to the where the kids will be or something of that nature, then make a short response. But if you're going to do NC, you can't go in and out.