You didn't like her, you didn't love her, you didn't respect her, and you married her due to attachment and sex? For you to have these feelings, she must have known, unspoken, or not, it and felt absolutely awful about the situation and herself. I would hope for any future wife you would make sure you love her, you like her for her. it will need to be true and eminate from you to have a healthy M.
That is correct Ginger, she must definitely have felt it, but why get engaged, married, have a baby, if you don't feel love back - COS SHE WAS SELFISH AND WANTED WHAT SHE WANTED, UNTIL SHE DIDN'T WANT IT ANYMORE. And so was I. Except, i never stepped out of the M.
As for a future W, I now know real love. Romantic attraction, which we try to gain from our WS's is fickle and they wwill turn again. Real love is action, as Cadet preaches, but it's where the real love comes from that matters. There is only one real love, from God, and we choose to have it for ourselves and share it with whomever we choose. I chose not to share it with someone that never cared for me.
Just cos things are going right, doesn't mean that they were always wrong.
