Detaching.....nearly there..

[Surfer]

Thanks Rose, Sotto and Doodler. It's strange really as she tends not to hear and accept any form of apology I imagine that this is common. It just seems to be dug up again and again and things get added to the arsenal - many of which are made up events/re-written history. Perhaps validation and if "I could re-write history..etc" is about as good as it gets.

I think she is finding it hard again at the moment now -the topic is all very nobody listens to her or cares etc at the moment. I then validate and say I understand that and I am listening - "but it's 'too late for that' etc" comes up. I find it all very confusing but that's no doubt why DB exists. To make sense of the madness and find a way through the fire without getting too badly burned.

Thank you again.