That's why I'm here! It's so counterintuitive for me to let her just walk away instead of trying to get her to stay.

And I have tons of doubts that I have to talk myself out of on a daily basis.

Luckily have a couple really good friends, one who is in a similar situation to me so we are trying to help each other stay positive and another who even though she doesn't agree with me she's 100% supportive and doesn't try to talk me out of it.

I just don't even know if I'm doing the right things...


W:32 M:26
T:5 yrs M: 3 yr
BD: JUN 2016
W Moved out: early JUL 2016
W Filed for D: mid JUL 2016
EA: 06/16?
PA: 07/16
Moved in w/ ow: 07/16
D final: 10/16