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[rich4j]

The other thing was her stating that she intends to be married again and would not agree to having someone over when d7 was there. having little to no contact with someone who you have been with for over 12 years is just so surreal.

Married again? Why would she state that...I think its just a way for her to continue to kick you in the shins. My STBX won't admit to the relationship she is in but said she would even have trouble being in a relationship right now nevertheless get married. I think she is just verbally punching you


And its all surreal. Not sure how anyone can just turn off the switch with someone you have been with for so long. I know I am going to try to have as little contact as possible and I know it will be quiet and lonely at first but its just the new path you are going down and will change over time when you find someone else worthy of being with you.

The blame game will always continue until one day maybe they wake up to realize they were also part of the issue