So after text at 1am to give me info on S school, I replied in morning with ok, cheers. Later that day I get an email from her from work 'reminding' me about a summer festival for D3 at the daycare. Later that night I get a text 'reminding' me about S having daycare today as school was finished. So W reminded me about 2 things that parents were invited to but didn't turn up herself for her kids. It feels like she has the out of sight out of mind mentality but then does stuff like this. The email and 2nd text where when she didn't have the kids.
She was also more interested in if I was going to sell the house or buy her out than her own sons visit to the dentist.... The house is negative equity as we had just built it and is far from being finished. It's livable but no garden and many bits to finish.
There really is no consistency in their/her behaviour in this mindset is there?Trying to make sure I spend more time looking at it from the outside cause I do know it will drive me crazy trying to work it out...
Me and the kids had a great time at the festival, they were up late so didnt rush them this morning. 3 more days and off on vacation with the kids again, will be somewhere with no phone or internet access. Looking forward to the break of W inconsistent nonsense as she won't be able to reach us for 18 days. Will be the longest period she has ever gone with no contact to our kids. Just me and family playing on the beach, swimming and showing them places they haven't been before.
Work is keeping me busy but have a new guy on the project who likes to have things his way, guess I will have plenty of opportunity now to practice my patience etc.
Other than that, gym the next couple of nights as the kids are away, see if I can catch up with some friends tomorrow to. Then the weekend packing is ready to go.
