Yes I would go with validation - I'm so sorry you felt that way - that must have been hard.

Or - yes I can see why you might have felt that. Looking back, there are things I would do differently.

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus