Hello there, my dear Sparrow Hawk. I am sorry that I kind of fell off the planet there for a while, but I'm here now, and I just read through your journal entries. I'm sorry to hear that WAW is acting strangely, but glad that you are hanging in there. Limboland is a strange place to be stuck. I didn't realize that you have yet to be served. Apparently it's going around, as WH can't seem to get me served, either.

I'm sorry to hear that D5 is struggling now. Luckily she has one parent who is a rock in her life and who can give her the stability she needs to make it through this transition. I am very, very glad that your D18 has passed the age limit that kept her from seeing a therapist previously. I think that she may benefit greatly from being able to work through her own thoughts with a neutral third party. I can't imagine how difficult all of this is for her, at an age where she feels like she should begin to take on the responsibilities and emotional maturity of an adult, and yet she is still very much a young girl. She is being and has been strong for everyone around her, yet she still needs to process her own thoughts and emotions and struggles. She also needs to grieve the losses she has felt.

I wish you s lovely day today, Sage Hope. And I do want to get back to being in closer touch with you. I miss that interaction.


H: 44, Me: 45
Married: 20 y Together: 25 y
no kids
Walk away: 12/15
Asked for temp separation 12/25/15
PA confirmed 3/16 (apparently neither the first, nor the last PA he has had)
H filed for D 5/16